So, I want to say that I think your reaction is valid, and I'm thinking less about why you're angry and looking at the actions that anger spawned. Leaving aside audience and position for a second. Hence the use of the word intrinsic.
And I'm not trying to say you're a hypocrite either. It's about looking at action and reaction and how people work.
I looked at Alex DeCampi's twitter and here's what she said:
So she expressed a strong opinion and suggested people support other creators.
And in response you expressed a strong opinion and while you didn't call for other people to boycott her work or anything, there is a de facto one in that you said you wouldn't support her work.
This is the core of the whole outrage culture stuff. In my opinion neither of you did anything wrong, but it ties into the actions of other people to signal boost a general level of anger in society. There will be people who will use this as an attempt to take down Chaykin, DeCampi or other members of the argument, who will point to these arguments as part of a critical mass against them.