is that what it has come to these days? a girl has less than three weeks to sleep with someone before she gets kicked to the curb? maybe i'm old fashioned, but i'd like to know someone for more than a few dates before engaging in something so intimate.
Say you've been seeing someone for three or four weeks, maybe a couple of times a week. If you honestly haven't decided if you want to sleep with them after that many dates, then what were you doing on those dates? Talking about the weather?
I'm pretty sure most people have made up their mind after the first or second date - that doesn't mean that you sleep together on the first date, but either the desire is there or it isn't. And if it is there, then why wait?