heh, I mostly just figure, if she's weighing up her options that much, she's not that into me. I've been attracted to more than one girl at once. Hell, it's 83% of my waking thoughts, but even when I've been somewhat actively pursuing relations with more than one lady at a time, I've never gone on a date with one girl one day, then arranged to date someone else. I tend to wait til things fall apart in their natural course with one girl before asking another out.
it is exactly about weighing options. that is dating. doesn't mean she's not into you, just that she wants to keep her options open. as i'm getting a bit older, i can see the appeal in that. why waste weeks being exclusive with some schmohawk that's never gonna talk to me again the second he finds out i'm not gonna fuck him as soon as he'd like?
edit: besides, if she has options, she's probably not gonna choose me.
so you're saying you'd rather she had no options besides you?
quit being so disparaging about yourself. i don't really know you, but i'm sure you have just as good a shot as anyone when it comes to relationships.