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Posted by James Dodsworth on 01 July 2014 - 09:07 PM
Posted by stephanie familiar on 12 January 2014 - 04:48 AM
After a very long battle with brain cancer, Henry passed away on January 8th, and was laid to rest this morning. He was 41.
Online, he was a very private and guarded person. You may have known him as Quilty, Marion Quiltowski, or as that mod with the whomping stick. He reached out to me a few years ago, and got to know him quite well. We wrote the kind of emails that took days to write (we’d end every email with “see you in two weeks!” because that’s how long it would take to compose one) and would have spanned ten pages had we written them on paper. He loved classical music (he tried to get me to love The Firebird as much as he did), Central Park, dreamed of seeing Vatican City one day, and his favourite season was Autumn.
I asked him once what his imaginary life would be. He said he’d have a little boy who’d share his love of comics, a daughter who was a dancer, and he’d teach history (high school or college, he couldn’t decide). He couldn’t picture a wife (Thora Birch maybe?) but they’d live in New York in one of those converted apartments that used to be a therapist’s office, and it would always be Fall.
Reading back through some of his emails, he was so eloquent and smart. You can tell that a lot of thought went into every sentence that he wrote. He talked about you guys, the guys who left MW for greener pastures, and that he even had Tegler ban his IP address once because coming here so often was affecting his work productivity.
I don’t believe in Heaven, but Henry did. For his sake, I hope there is one and that he’s there right now, finally without pain, without worry, and looking down on the people he loved. I’m going to miss hearing his New Yawk accent on the other end of the line, telling me everything's gonna be okay, calling me ‘kiddo.’
His obituary may be found here. Please take a minute to leave a few words in the guest book for his family. Send me a PM or Facebook me for an address if you wish to send a card. Thank you for the support you've given him and his family in the past. It meant something to them.
Rest in peace, Henry.
Posted by Arjan Dirkse on 19 July 2014 - 12:56 AM
I can't understand how you can't take even a little pride in your appearance. If you don't respect yourself how do you expect others to respect you?
Yeah, I'm sure it was meant in jest but I agree with Arjan (without condoning his choice of words). That was a bit tactless, Jim.
Arjan I don't know much about your personal situation, but if you think it's acceptable to go through life being dirty I fundamentally disagree. MW may be a safe place, but it doesn't entitle you to not hear opinions from others. Living in a bubble doesn't help anyone. I don't expect you to apologize but it's sad you can can get so angry about a fundamental expectation of decent human behavior.
I'm pretty confident these days that people don't take offense at my lovely aroma, just to get that out of the way. As I said, I shower pretty much everyday, the days I don't shower it's because I overslept or something and I'm in a hurry to go out. But at least in this climate I think most people could get by with just washing a few vital parts daily to get rid of any sweaty odours, and showering maybe 2-3 times a week.
I have pretty severe OCPD combined with a social phobia, which used to mean - in my case - that it's difficult, most of the times impossible for me to face any person I don't know, especially anyone of the female gender, for fearing rejection - there was just a continuous tape going on in my head telling me "you're worthless, you're stupid, you're ugly, you stink, nobody likes you, you'd be better off dead". It took years of therapeutic sessions and feedback of people - friends and two lovers - to assure me I didn't stink, and I was a person who was worth existing. It's something that doesn't really go away, but it's somewhat easier for me now to interact with people.
So your post just said "you stink and that's why girls don't like you." To suggest that odours are the reason someone doesn't have a life partner even without knowing - or smelling - that person, is incredibly offensive. Internet doesn't have an olfactory interface yet, so we can't have a " smell off" here to compare personal fragrances, which means that it's just fucking stupid and insensitive of you to make such claims. I am not very angry or anything, but your attitude just betrays that you can occasionally be a bit of a smug, self centered bully.
It wasn't even directed at you Arjan. I don't know anything about your social life. To be honest I didn't read any if your posts. I was mainly focused on Oguls pride that he doesn't wash his hands after wiping his ass and I love giving Jacow a hard time because he's easy to rile up.
Sounds like you've been dealt a shitty hand dude. I wish you the best of luck with it.
"Shitty hand" might be a poor choice of words.
Posted by Patrick A on 24 February 2015 - 04:11 PM
It's me. I'm Ogul's "source." Probably.
It should come as no surprise that his worldview and his representation of what is going on is skewed.
For some reason, probably because I need my fucking head examined, I've put in a lot of work in an effort to get Ogul to be a productive member of the board. I've tried to explain to him that his incessant need to be right, his inability to drop anything and his worldview that, when not outright misanthropic, puts him in the center of everything drives more or less everyone he interacts with (and I use that word loosely) batshit insane.
He has gotten more and more rope but he simply lacks the sort of self awareness necessary. Everything becomes a persecution complex and people telling him to cut the shit turns into some Deep Throat type intrigue. Trying to get him to not be a disruptive force, in his mind, turns into some giant conspiracy where the man is trying to keep him down. Literally it isn't him, it is all of you who complain about him incessantly.
Normally I'd handle this privately but, since repeated efforts to do so have born no fruit and since he decided to basically fling some bullshit in order to pump up his skewed vision of the world, AND since I literally just had a fucking exchange with him about not going off the deep end and his reaction was to come here and do this... I guess we are doing it in public.
He's gone. I wish him luck in his future endeavors.
I apologize to the community in general. Over the past ten years we've built a pretty impressive thing. Ogul wouldn't qualify as a minor annoyance in most spots on the internet. Here is different, so the behavior sticks out. I probably let it go too long.
I apologize to Ogul. I tried.
Posted by Mike on 10 May 2014 - 08:49 PM
I've been reminded it's ten years ago this weekend that I first met people from Millarworld in real life, which ended up with me, John, Bruno and Mike dancing through the streets of Bristol in the early hours singing Hollaback Girl.
When I turned up at the hotel I was frankly terrified, the receptionist couldn't understand me, I couldn't understand her, and someone shouted across to me that I was a Nazi. And then Alice appeared with a pint, and it all got better.
Some of my best friends are now people I originally met here. This place is ace. Just wanted to say that.
Though that that weekend was ten years ago IS frankly terrifying.
Posted by Ulf on 07 March 2014 - 03:18 PM
Hooray, I have my wife back home! The downside: the cancer was further advanced than hoped and we're looking at six months of chemo. But this too will pass. She's home and she's intent on beating this thing once and for all, that's all that matters.
Really makes you appreciate the little things in life.
Posted by T Masters on 16 January 2014 - 12:51 AM
The good news, which has just been confirmed, is that the article I wrote about life post-backpacking is getting a double page spread as a feature in Saturday's paper. The feature story will also showcase some of the photos I took travelling, which is pretty cool.
The downside is it wasn't a paid gig, and the paper is The Telegraph (not the most reputable of Australian papers, although not the worst) Still, somewhat cool news and I'll link to the article when it pops up on the weekend.
Still haven't heard back from that job however I contacted their HR department who told me they haven't received the report from the panelists yet, and to try again on Friday. Also, I should find out whether I've been accepted into Sydney Law then so it potentially may be an interesting weekend.
Posted by Nicholas Taggart on 14 December 2014 - 05:55 PM
Posted by garjones on 19 July 2014 - 04:47 PM
The Queen Lantern Corps:
Posted by garjones on 16 July 2014 - 03:53 AM
Posted by Steve Sensible on 17 April 2014 - 06:22 AM
Yeah it's tricky to link to here. I posted it on Facebook though if anyone else wants to add from there.
It's Jerry, Al and Gar!
Posted by James Dodsworth on 19 January 2014 - 11:25 PM
So, after a delightful afternoon/evening out with Mike and Sanjay, and Gibsonian popping by as well, my thoughts turn to what this board has meant to people over the years. A lot of people have passed through here to one extent or the other through its various incarnations.
We all interact in some small way through this board and I know a lot of you think it has been a bit of an inner circle at times, but it is what you make of it, we're all very accommodating here. I have found some of my closest friends due to the various forms of the board.
I would like to say that my wife and I are expecting our second baby in July this year, adding to the growing number of babies born since this board existed. Nevermind the large number of us who have married or found partners along the way.
So, what do you like about Millarworld? Let's be positive, tell tales of good things that have happened because you are (or were) here. Even if it's just what you've observed happening on the board - how did it make you feel?
I have many stories that I'm sure my friends will crossover with, but I want everyone to feel as though they can say something positive about interacting or just lurking here.
I promise Al-X* will not log any of it.
*cybernet bows to no mortal!
Posted by Mikha'il Tegler on 12 January 2014 - 06:37 PM
Posted by garjones on 26 February 2015 - 03:14 PM
Posted by Sanjay on 19 February 2015 - 04:48 PM
You guys are pathetic excuses for Star Wars fans. No wonder Lucas abandoned you. Have fun with your corporate overlords.
If you knew who my corporate overlords were, Scott, you'd be spinning in your seat right now...
Posted by Patrick A on 17 February 2015 - 07:07 PM
You Ogul. Everyone is talking about you.
I mean, there have been others over time but right now, if someone talks about a poster who dominates the conversation, turns everything about them and never, ever bothers to even try to see any side of a conversation other than whatever point he has walled himself up in, they are talking about you.
Posted by Mike on 04 September 2014 - 09:10 PM
I bloody love it here.
And Matt, the last time you tried to share the love, I ended up with a mild concussion.
Posted by Chris Fenton on 23 July 2014 - 09:53 PM
The greying gentlemen with a hole in his hair cut is my Dad, walking out with the England team at the commonwealth games opening ceremony.
Posted by Ulf on 02 May 2014 - 04:45 PM
Posted by brucegray666 on 27 February 2014 - 09:11 PM
Via Elliot Balson on Facebook: